It’s funny to think about what a man really believes a woman to be attracted to or inspired by. Do we like a tough rugged street smart guy who can fight to protect us? Yes, the short answer is we do. But there’s also something very sexy about the booksmart gentleman who always seems to be the smartest guy in the room. That guy who always knows the answer without looking at google, and when you make a bet on a specific topic that’s up for debate, he always finds himself in the winners seat. But what a woman truly desires, is a man who possesses the qualities of both. A man who can navigate through the toughest weather and strongest of storms, all while doing it without getting himself into trouble, by simply using his mind to outwit the circumstance at hand. One who can rise to the occasion at any time and only fight physically when left no other option or path to take. Because what good is being able to fight for your lady, if you’re locked in a cell and not able to do so?
Either way a strong woman will always stick by her man no matter what the circumstances, but the tall, dark, handsome swag thing you got going on will only keep her obsessing over you for so long. Once a woman is fed up and has truly had enough of the bull, she’ll pack up and leave you quicker than you get the chance to say goodbye. That’s the reality of it all, the true ending to the tough guy, every girl want’s me act.
It’s ok to be humble, that is so much more attractive than walking around all day staring at yourself in the mirror telling yourself how blessed you are to have biceps like that. In fact, humbleness goes a long way, a lot further than one might realize. Do not think us women do not notice another woman’s man, especially when he pays us no attention whatsoever. When he is all about the one he loves, that’s what makes us say “Aww he’s so perfect, I wish I had me a man like him.” Think about it, if you’re willing to stray from the woman you so called love, then what could we possibly be worth to you, there certainly isn’t any future there considering your taken.
Bottom line is this, I have been in a relationship with my fiance (Angelo Zammit) for 10 years and going, I am fortunate enough to have found me a man both physically able and mentally able to care for me. He is like my buildabear stuffed into one big strong, smart, witty, loving, compassionate, unselfish, giving, caring, intellectual being. So it is possible but slim, and nothing in life comes without a fair fight. There will always be ups but surely more downs. In the end you have to just use your heart and dig deep enough to weather the storms along the way. What will be, will be whether we like the results or not. But being arrogant, possessive, self absorbed and obnoxious trying to make your girl jealous and think that there is no other like you, and no one can ever take your place and so on, will only leave you lonely and broken hearted in the end, wondering where it all went wrong!
So men, if you are truly looking for that special one who will love you endlessly then be her’s and be humble, she already knows she has the best man walking earth, after all, she chose you didn’t she?